My aim is to help people understand energy and give them the tools to create their own harmonious and fun filled journey. Accessing what you love to do brings contentment, happiness, fulfilment and abundance. We all have different passions and it’s a question of finding the courage or permission to allow yourself to follow your very own dreams. You have to become your own ‘Master’ rather than the servant of others and the outside world.
When you love what you do, you emit ‘love’ energy and it becomes contagious. And invariably you find people want a bit of it……. “I’ll have whatever she’s having” goes the saying. What people really want is their own experience of love energy. Sometimes though they mistakingly think it’s you or another person that makes them experience that feel good factor when it isn’t actually that. They’ve simply been able to let go, hone in and enjoy the fun or love energy that is being emitted. When you love what you do, you feel complete or whole…. in fact you don’t actually need anybody else in that moment because you are experiencing this wonderful connective feeling. It’s great, it’s priceless!
But how often do you find yourself doing things, which you would rather not? You hear that inner dialogue saying perhaps that you cannot let someone down or they would be upset if you didn’t go. We’re all the same and we have all done things when we might much prefer to stay at home and paint or cook or whatever. But from feelings of guilt or duty etc we act against our wishes and give of our time, but not without resentment. Maybe something or someone has interrupted the quiet yet contented happy space that you were enjoying and you feel miffed……. almost as though an intruder had stepped by.
It’s all quite commonplace. But when you realize that what you are emitting into the world is indeed ‘resentment’ energy, you start to take on a different perception. Do I need to add further ‘resentment’ energy into this already overloaded soup bowl? If somebody gets upset because you don’t want to do something, then that truly is their affair. You are not directly responsible for their emotional reaction. Perhaps the person responds and says “gosh, I’m feeling rejected,” but that wasn’t your intention to reject the person, it’s just you wanted to do something else. So the sense of rejection lies with the other individual and, in this example, it is this very rejection that needs healing and understanding.
Accommodating someone else’s needs at the expense of your own leads to a very slippery and miserable path. An accumulation of negative emotional energy such as guilt, resentment, unexpressed anger or fear leads to blockages in our physical body and system. This eventually compromises the very vehicle of our existence by putting it under pressure & strain and, eventually, corruption at a cellular level is manifested.
This whole issue is about ‘space’ and your space to be precise. We have a field emanating around us and who we invite in and who we say “no” to is key. And within this field lies our vulnerabilities, fears, desires, hopes and just about everything that we ever think of. It is our energy field emitting our frequency and therefore attracting or repelling that which we either want or don’t want. Learning to say “no thank you” or “sorry, but it’s not quite my cup of tea” are probably the best statements that anyone can teach you. Looking after your space is the first step to honouring yourself and recognising your very own self worth.
And trust me all good things will follow from this.
